How do you change your
life? Well that is the Million Dollar Question
isn’t it. I think there are many ways
that you can change your life for the better, it depends on who you are and
what you want.
One thing I do know is that
even though each of our reasons for why we change and what we want may be different,
there is ONE Thing We have in common.
There is a point when your desires outweigh your fears and that is when
true change is possible.
In the past I personally had
Great and Amazing desires for how I wanted my life to unfold. My mind was full of grandeur when I would
envision what kind of life would make me happy.
The problem was that MY FEAR of change and FEAR of Failure stopped me in
my tracks.
I would convince myself that
“my dreams” weren’t possible. I would
convince myself that I would fail. I
would convince myself that I would be better off staying put, rather than risk
putting myself out there and Failing.
If it wasn’t my Fear of Failure
that stopped me from changing my life, it was my lack of self-esteem. I would convince myself that I didn’t deserve
to be happy. I would convince myself
that The Universe was out to get me. I
was so afraid of failure, that I just gave up.
What a waste of time living in
fear can be. I wasted so much time
fearing failure, fearing connections, fearing pain and anxiety that I literally
lost YEARS of My Life. Thankfully today
I am finally starting to live.
When I refer to “living” I am
talking about more than just existing, I am talking about EXPERIENCING LIFE,
LOVE, and yes even Pain. It is the
entire pantheon of human experiences and emotions that constitutes Really
Living.
We are not going to have
everything we dream about, but that isn’t meant to be negative. We can learn from the bad and thrive and
rejoice in the good. What can you do
today to let go of FEAR?
To The Universe
Love Brandy
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