Monday, January 14, 2013

It’s one thing to Expect Excellence, It’s Another to Require Perfection. No One is Perfect!!!


                Good Morning Universe, I need your help.  I need to let go of negativity.  I had a task a few weeks ago, I needed to arrange to have my Car (which is still in Sac) detailed so my father could photograph it for sale while he is visiting this week.  I had discussed this with my family in Sac, but I didn’t follow up.  That was my task and I forgot to follow it through to completion, but blame won’t help.
                It is such a fine line between expecting perfection and being encouraged to stay on track.  When you inflict guilt on yourself or others because you are unhappy or disappointed, that is not LOVE.  How do you encourage accountability in yourself and in others, while remembering that we are ALL HUMAN.  We ALL make mistakes, We All have memory lapses, and We All experience Fear.
                It is my responsibility to work harder to “stay on top” of things, but it is also my responsibility to “let go” of the small stuff.  My old self wants to dwell in negativity and anger, but I KNOW that won’t help me or anyone else.  Sometimes things just happen, sometimes people just forget.  Sometimes we have to remember that when you criticize yourself or others it isn’t always coming from a desire to encourage growth, we are just upset. 
It is now my job to “let go” of this negativity and move on, it may be easy or it may be difficult, but letting go of my negativity must be done.  It is also my responsibility to work harder to stay on top of things better.  I will congratulate my successes, then learn from and discard my failures.
                Remember to temper your thoughts and words with Understanding and Love.  Remember that each of us makes mistakes, and we don’t need to dwell on Every Mistake made by ourselves or others.  Don’t be too critical.
To The Universe
Love Brandy

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