Good Morning Universe, let’s
talk about honesty. I grew up hearing
that “Honesty is The Best Policy” and that is generally true. The problem we face these days is when does
honesty cross the line and become hurtful.
Everyone needs to share. We shouldn’t hold in our fears, anger,
anxiety or other negative emotions because they can poison us. The problem is we can’t say everything that
comes to our minds, it’s inappropriate, unhealthy, and selfish.
So how do we know when honesty
is best? Well, if you are saying what is
honestly in your head but your heart feels wrong. Don’t Say it.
When it comes to sharing negative things about other people you should
be filtering those things through Your Head and Your Heart.
Another thing to remember is
when you share what you are feeling and experiencing consider whether or not
you are trying to elicit a specific reaction from who you are sharing
with. For example, if you are angry with
someone and you share your thoughts with them simply to make them feel bad or
hurt…EVEN IF IT’S TRUE it’s usually inappropriate.
You shouldn’t be sharing with
another person in order to hurt them.
You should be sharing in order to grow or heal. Be aware that once you share something it
isn’t up to you how the other person will react. You are only in control of yourself, what
other people feel and do is entirely up to them.
Don’t let your feelings build up inside,
just work on finding the appropriate time and words to share how you feel. Honesty is the best policy, and we should be
“telling the truth.” But we should be
examining our motives behind how and why we are sharing.
It’s not brain surgery. If we are paying attention and not working
from our ego, we will know deep inside if what are sharing is coming from a
“good place” or a “bad place.”
To The Universe
Love Brandy
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